Why I Don’t Focus on Who I Disagree With (And What I Choose Instead)

Daily writing prompt
What public figure do you disagree with the most?

When I first read this question, I hesitated. Not because I couldn’t think of anyone—but because I don’t really spend time focusing on that.

Like most people, I have my own opinions. There are certainly public figures whose actions or words I may not agree with. But more often than not, I prefer to keep those thoughts to myself. My husband and I might discuss things like this occasionally, but only when necessary—and even then, we keep it light. We’ve learned that peace of mind is far more valuable than winning a debate.

Life already has its share of stress. Why add more by focusing on someone I disagree with, especially when we’re all so different—with unique beliefs, values, and life experiences? I’ve found it far more fulfilling to center my energy on what brings me joy, what makes sense to me, and what helps me grow.

It’s okay to have differences. In fact, it’s human. But we can choose to agree to disagree, to respect each other’s paths, and to focus on what we can control—our attitude, our actions, and the way we treat others.

So while I could list a name in response to this prompt, I’d rather offer a perspective. A mindset that leans into the good. A reminder that life becomes a little lighter when we stop feeding the things that don’t serve us and start nurturing the things that do.

Thanks for reading. Let’s keep choosing peace, wherever we can.

3 thoughts on “Why I Don’t Focus on Who I Disagree With (And What I Choose Instead)

  1. My husband and I disagree on many things, most of them minor. But when it comes to the big stuff, we find out where we stand and which gun is pointed at which person, and leave it there. No discussion. I know he was a fan of Trump at one point, but I would rip out my tongue rather than ask if he still is. I assume he outgrew it, but i don’t want to know if he didn’t. Some things are best left hanging in the air.

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