Letting me go must have been one of the hardest things that my grandmother ever had to do. The child she raised as her own is embarking on an unknown journey where everything is foreign to her. I know it was hard, and that moment must have shattered her heart because it did mine. But she had to reassure me that it’s okay to be brave, all on my own for the first time in my life.

I knew my grandma didn’t want to let me go, and a part of me didn’t want to leave either. As I entered the departure area, I hesitated to look back, but I had to. I tried to hold back tears and wear a brave face so she wouldn’t worry. However, when I reached my gate, looked around, and sat down, that’s when I started sobbing. I was trying not to but couldn’t stop, and it continued throughout my flight until I finally set foot in America for the first time.

That was twenty-six years ago today, but I remember it like it was yesterday. It was one of the toughest and bravest things I’ve ever done in my life—leaving everything behind to start anew. It was difficult at first, but I learned and adapted to my new environment.

It’s a bittersweet moment in my life, but it’s also something I am grateful for. I am grateful that my grandmother held my hand and continued to guide me despite knowing that she’d have to let me go. She continued to show her support and unconditional love like she always had. I became brave because she was. That’s what she has always shown me growing up—her resilience and optimism about life always shine through.

As I look back on that day twenty-six years ago, I can’t help but marvel at how far I’ve come and how my grandmother’s love and support have shaped the person I am today. The journey to America was just the beginning, but it was a testament to the strength of our bond. It’s a memory that will forever hold a special place in my heart, and I’m grateful for every moment of it. Today, I cherish the lessons of bravery, resilience, and unwavering love that she instilled in me. My grandmother’s legacy continues to guide me, and for that, I am eternally thankful. 💖